Divine female (the becoming)

I  want to talk about the world in which men can never enter into or never fully understand despite how great their intentions are.
The world of the female who is in tune with her spirit can never fully be penetrated by the male mind.  The wisdom of a woman's mind and heart and why we make the choices we make will always remain a mystery and that is how it has to be for us to be beneficial to our surroundings.
I love how this movie portrays just that when Arwen breaks away and defies her well intentioned male logic (represented by her father).

Yeah what she said ;)

:)

Wild World

I was driving to work today and this song came on and the lyrics really hit my heart.  So much I cried, these lyrics are genius!

Today was an awesome day despite not being anyone's Valentine.  I just feel so blessed with my life and am looking forward to what my future holds. 
The love's of my past have no hold on me anymore.  I have no regrets, no bitterness and no longing to be somewhere or with someone who doesn't fully appreciate me, love me and cherish me.
 It feels so good to be in this state of mind and still have love in my heart. 

Luv, luv, luv this

We Will See

Ok so we will see about this :)  I have had a real problem with this throughout my life with people whom I really care about.  Over the past year or so I have noticed that my desire to chase people, make them understand and always be the one to mend the argument has just slowly been vanishing away.  I used to feel such things were my responsibility because I am able to see the big picture.

What a crock!  Being the constant fixer is just a way of imprisoning myself and also allowing others to not take responsibility for their part in our relationship.

I have decided to take all the energy I use chasing people and trying to convince them of what a great person I am and put it towards my self improvement :D