Ok so we will see about this :) I have had a real problem with this throughout my life with people whom I really care about. Over the past year or so I have noticed that my desire to chase people, make them understand and always be the one to mend the argument has just slowly been vanishing away. I used to feel such things were my responsibility because I am able to see the big picture.
What a crock! Being the constant fixer is just a way of imprisoning myself and also allowing others to not take responsibility for their part in our relationship.
I have decided to take all the energy I use chasing people and trying to convince them of what a great person I am and put it towards my self improvement :D